You cannot convert a .prel file into a mp4 file.
a .prel file is the project file and not a video file.
You open the .prel file with Elements, once the clips are all on the timeline you hit Share which will export the timeline into a videofile.
As Bill already mentioned your project settings are incorrect.
Have to start over or follow this tutorial.
Changing Project Settings in Premiere Elements - YouTube
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